Posts Tagged ‘Christian’

The Waste of Size

Thursday, May 17th, 2012

By Jarrid Wilson

Alright Ladies, this post is for you.

To be honest, I’m disgusted by the way our world treats you. It’s sad to say, but it’s almost as if our world purposely ignores the way we treat women. And Christian or not, the topic of weight and waist floats across the board of conversations. Not to mention how many women have struggled with weight issues in their past. The heartless conversations definitely don’t help.

The Church is supposed to be a place of freedom, acceptance, and purity. But how many times have you found your insecurity level rise while in the presence of Christian men or women? Our conversation is supposed to encourage, not deter.

Ephesians 4:29 - Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

1 Samuel 16:7 - For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart.

If yes, why is that?

Now don’t get me wrong. I am not saying all Christian men/women are like this. But what I am saying is that it’s wrong and not of God. You are beautiful in the eyes or God, and until someone can look at you through His eyes, their sight is of the world and not of purity.

Continue to seek God, and do not let the opinion of men or women crush your foundation in Christ. Regardless if you weigh 50 lbs., 100 lbs., or 300 lbs. You have been made in HIS image, and don’t you ever forget that.

Ladies, your beauty is not defined by your waist size or weight but by your heart and passion for Jesus Christ. And if anyone says differently, I wouldn’t waste your time in their presence because they’re only going to bring you down.

A real man knows waist size is a waste size. It’s the heart for Him that counts.

Genesis 1:27 - So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. 

Jarrid Wilson is an aspiring world changer whose eagerness is to preach the love of God with others. He is passionate about connecting God’s Word to the upcoming generation through relevant, yet challenging and pivotal messages. He is determined to use every avenue available to audaciously shout the truth of a loving and personal God.

He’s a broken guy, seeking God in bringing Hope to a broken world.

“Underneath my skinny, pale, fragile boned structure, is a man seeking after Gods own heart.”

http://jarridwilson.com/

 

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Singled Out: SELF-ish-less – As a Christian Single

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

Enjoy this article by my new, contributing writer, Ashlee Chu!

Contributing Writer, Ashlee Chu

 

 As a Christian Single

I believe what makes a Christian single different than any other single are the faith-based values behind the lifestyle presented in the Bible. Being a Christian single helps make me more aware of how I live. In church, I have been taught to wait to have sex until marriage, make sure you love that person and date in such a way that would please God and his commandments. First, I am made accountable by my faith and loved ones to save myself until marriage. Virginity seems taboo these days and most girls say they’re holding out as another way to play hard to get. However, I choose to stay this way until marriage not merely because of my Christian beliefs. I don’t want to look at my husband on my wedding night and say, “Sorry, a few other guys I dated had me already. You’re just the last one. I love you though.” No thank you. I want him to know that I waited for marriage and for him. This personal lifestyle choice has made me feel unashamed and has helped me remain true to my future husband.

Another way I live as a Christian single is to surround myself with healthy singles, dating and married couples. I want to learn and grow from family, friends and mentors; regardless of their faith background. I also don’t give my number to any guy that asks or look for guys to talk to while I‘m out. I will be friendly to everyone, but my attention and company needs to be earned. This doesn’t apply to only guys, I make sure that my girlfriends are genuine and honest with me before I spend time with or share too much with them. Honesty and trust are such large aspects of any of my friendships or relationships. I am honestly joyful with the single life I lead and trust that God will bless me in my marriage.

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