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Do you and your spouse, family, and/or friends have any fun summer plans on the horizon?
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Steve and I are heading to Virginia this month for my sister’s college graduation, and we are super excited about it! It was a long-term goal for my sister to complete her degree, and she did it with flying colors. We are so proud of her, and it’s going to be absolutely incredible to have the whole family together to celebrate her accomplishment!
Other than that, we have a bit more of a subdued travel schedule this summer than normal, but I am sure we will do plenty of fun, local things to make memories. We rarely sit still for very long, so I doubt this summer will be an exception to that rule. Summer is always a fun time, so I’m looking forward to what we can get into J
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Is your spouse at all like your Mom or Dad? Why or why not?
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My husband, Steve, is very different from my dad. While I love my dad to pieces, Steve is a lot of the things I always wanted my dad to be. He’s very playful and funny, and he’s always up for a new adventure big or small. He’s extremely patient, never grumbles, and is always ready to lend a helping hand happily. Steve is super outgoing and loves being around people, which is great since I do too. Also, Steve is very athletic and loves sports. These are all pretty opposite from my dad. On the flip side though, my dad is super handy and can fix anything, and let’s just say, Steve isn’t so “fix-it” inclined or interested.
What they do share is a love for the Lord and a love for their families. Both my dad and Steve are hard workers. They are both full of integrity, and I trust them completely. Honestly, I’ve never met two men who are more incredible, and I have such an unbelievable amount of respect for both of them as they are truly blessings in my life!
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I may not be considered among the old and wise yet, but I have experienced quite a bit in my rather brief life up until this point. Oftentimes I feel as though I am somewhat of an “old soul” because of the things I have been through, learned, and experienced. While I still have a long way to go, there is one thing I have discovered to be true: life is a journey that requires patience, grace, and love. And love itself requires the most patience and grace of all of life’s journeys.
In our western culture, we often demand and expect instant gratification. Most products and services cater to our crazy, hectic, and busy lifestyles on the go, and we’ve come to mandate nothing less. Unfortunately, that mentality has spilled over into our marriages, families, and relationships. We want a self-serving, drive-thru, instant gratification kind of life, but that’s the opposite of what relationships require.
Love needs nurturing and patience. It is a marathon not a sprint. Slowly it blossoms and grows establishing deeper, stronger roots all the while. The more we love it and care for it, the stronger and more radiant it becomes. This requires patience, endurance, and determination. All of the blood, sweat, and tears though are well worth it because the rewards of a true and lasting love and marriage far outweigh any of life’s other offerings.
There’s a song that I think captures the ebbs and flows, ups and downs, and patience that love requires. It talks of the journey of determination, grace, endurance, and perseverance in a beautiful, unwavering way. Honestly, I adore this song and its captivating lyrics about a bold yet tender and tenacious love and just know you will too. It’s called I Won’t Give Upby Jason Mraz.
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Who do you go to when you need relationship advice?
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I think this is a super important question to ask for several reasons. One is that your inner circle has a lot of influence, and you want to make sure that it is influencing you in a good way. The other reason is that you need to protect your marriage. Sometimes when we share with family members about issues with our spouse, we tend to forget that they don’t forgive and forget quite as easily as we do, so it’s important to use discretion in the amount that’s shared with them in order to protect those relationships and your marriage.
For me, I do seek the counsel of my family – my mom, dad, and sisters – although I keep things very general and usually frame it in a way that is an “us” issue. I don’t just vent with my family; I choose very specific times that I need solid advice, wisdom, and prayer. My best friend Di is the other person I frequent most often for advice. She is an amazing, trustworthy, Christian friend who has been an incredible sounding board. She values and loves my husband too (our husbands are besties), and she is always pushing me back toward him and our marriage in her advice, which is so important. In every situation though, I am seeking God’s wisdom and guidance through prayer!
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For those of you who are married, were you afraid at all to get married? Why or why not?
For those of you who aren’t married, are you at all afraid to get married? Why or why not?
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Yes and no. I had absolutely no doubts about marrying my husband Steve. He was perfect for me in every way, and I was beyond thrilled to start our life together. While I truly was so excited about marrying Steve, there was an element of “fear” in getting married just because of the huge responsibility that it is. I knew I wanted to be the most amazing wife I could be for Steve, and yet, I didn’t exactly know what that looked like or meant. You can’t really know that until you are actually married. That was scary in some ways, but ultimately, I realized that it was going to be the most amazing adventure of a lifetime. We both prepared for the unknown as best we could through premarital counseling, heart-to-hearts, contemplation, prayer, and other various avenues, and we knew from there it was a joyous leap of faith that we would have to tackle together with God’s help.
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What are some of your favorite date night plans?
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I love all sorts of date nights with my sweet hubs, and we’re always looking for something new and fun to do. At the same time, there’s nothing quite like a night in together. While I love all of our dates, two are jumping out at me as I’m writing this. The first is going to an amusement park together. Where we live we have Universal Park, Disneyland, Knotts Berry Farm, and Six Flags Magic Mountain all close by, so we’ve got options. I love the fun, youthful atmosphere of an amusement park. Screaming and holding on tightly to your sweetie as you loop around on a roller coaster. Having your man try to win you some cheesy and completely unnecessary prize at a rigged and nearly impossible game. Sharing some cotton candy and an extra-large soda. What’s not to love?
On the complete opposite end of the spectrum, I absolutely love a night in shnuggled up with my husband under a cozy blanket with the fireplace flickering its warm glow about the room and a glass of wine. Oh and a good movie playing too. It’s romantic, relaxing, and perfectly idyllic.
Alright, alright … enough of me. I want to hear some of your fun, cute, creative ideas!
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Most of us have been in a relationship at some point in our life where we felt unappreciated, unloved, and undesired. Rather than being wooed and affirmed, you’re left convincing the person to love you and see that you are valuable, precious, and worthy of being treated with respect. It’s lonely, painful, and damaging.
I was definitely in a relationship like this before, and I had nearly lost all faith in the existence of my “fairytale.” It wasn’t that I was looking for perfection or unrealistic, but I had always hoped for and believed in finding someone that I loved and adored and who felt the same way about me. My best friend that adventured through life with me. Someone to laugh, cry, and just be with through all of life’s turns and swerves. That person that pushes you to your full potential while supporting you in a loving embrace. This vision and dream was but a mere flicker at one point because of the relationship I had subjected myself to.
Then, I met my husband. Quickly my flicker became a flame, and I found that all of my hopes and dreams for a lifetime partner were not only realized but exceeded. What a treasure and blessing it is to find the one that your heart loves. That person who makes you dream, hope, anticipate, strive, and believe.
There’s a song by Taylor Swift off of her latest album, Red, that always stirs gratitude within me. I’m reminded of the brokenness and loneliness I once felt and the excitement and joy that my husband brought me when he came into my life. The song is called Begin Again, and it’s a message of hope. Hope that love exists and that, if you’re willing to be patient, diligent, and wise, someone who is deserving will come into your life.
I will leave you with this thought: God wants the best for you. Sometimes we settle and compromise for less than that, but God wants you to have faith in His plans for your life. ‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’ (Jeremiah 29:11). If you’re struggling, questioning, wondering, or searching, take it to your Heavenly Father. Whether it seems like it or not, He cares, is listening, and working on your behalf.
Let me know what you think of the song and, well, anything else you might have on your mind.
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What is the biggest hindrance to you and your spouse spending quality time together?
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Like many of you I’m sure, the biggest hindrance to me and Steve spending quality time together is the busyness of our lives. Between work, friends, family, church, volunteering, maintaining our home, and other commitments, it can be tough to carve out time just to be together. Usually by the time we’re done running all around and doing everything we need to, we’re both wiped out emotionally, physically, and mentally anyway. We really have to be intentional about creating the time, space, and energy to care for one another and nurture our marriage.
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