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Our Adventures: Final Thoughts

Monday, October 18th, 2010

As we drove up to the airport in Kona, Hawaii, I found myself sad that the trip was over. Wouldn’t it be nice to live permanently in vacation mode? You would be free from worry, stress, and anxiety to enjoy yourself, relax, laugh more, and have some fun. As I felt myself slipping into that bummed out state, I realized something.

Vacation is a state of mind. Ok, it might sound a little wacky, but it is true. Life can be tough; it throws us curve balls, fast balls, and knuckle balls, sometimes all at the same time. We find ourselves stressed out and barely holding on, let alone enjoying life. Personally, stress and worry are two major culprits in bogging me down and stealing my joy. We all have things that keep us from making the most of our days and, ultimately, life. How do we change that?

I found some answers in my Bible. In the last two years I have set out on making reading my Bible a priority. So many people say it is just some old book that’s irrelevant to today, so I wanted to find out if that’s true or not for myself. What I found has shocked me. My Bible is more relevant today than it probably was back when it was written. It is full of amazing stories, practical advice, and clear direction for how to have the best life possible. While that is an entry for another day, one of the practical applications related to enjoying my life came in the following verses:

  • Luke 12:25-26 ~ Can all your worries add a single moment to your life? And if worry can’t accomplish a little thing like that, what’s the use of worrying over bigger things?
  • Proverbs 12:25 ~ Worry weighs a person down; an encouraging word cheers a person up.
  • Psalm 37:4-5 ~ Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you your heart’s desires. Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust Him, and He will help you.
  • Isaiah 40:31 ~ But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
  • Nehemiah 8:10 ~ Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.
  • Psalm 94:19 ~ When doubts filled my mind, your comfort gave me renewed hope and cheer.

There is no need to worry; it doesn’t change a thing. It does steal your joy and wreak havoc on your body though. With a fresh perspective, I realized that I should be thankful for all of the recent adventures Steve and I enjoyed together. I celebrated our special memories and decided that when we went home, I would make it a point to savor each day together.

Just because responsibilities are weighing on us doesn’t mean we can’t still have fun. We make sure to have fun together in some way each day. Laugh often together. Take time away from everything to just relax together, even if it’s for five minutes at the end of the day. And, we decided that regular getaways together away from everything are a must.

Life is a gift, not a guarantee, and it is up to us what we are going to do with it. We can squander it on worry, stress, pointless endeavors, materialistic greed, addiction, and a million other dead-ends. Or, we can enjoy, savor, appreciate, and make the most of our precious gift.

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.”

 ~B. Olatunji

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Our Adventures: Aloha, Hawaii! Part 2

Monday, October 11th, 2010

Tuesday we had decided that we need to more fully explore the island, so we hopped in our car and started to cruise around to the other side of the island where Hilo is. On our way we stopped at a local spot that was recommended to us for breakfast, Hawaiian Style Cafe. Steve indulged with Macadamia nut pancakes, but I hit the jackpot with the Loco Moco, a local dish consisting of rice topped with egg, Spam, Portuguese sausage, sausage links, and a brown gravy. It was so delicious, but the portions were more than either of us could handle.

With tummies full, we hit the road again. Next stop, Akaka Falls. You can’t go to Hawaii and not see waterfalls, so we made sure to put this on the agenda. Unfortunately we decided to go against the recommendation of the signs and hiked the opposite direction into the rain forest, which left us with the steep part to climb up rather than down. It was good exercise though, and we enjoyed seeing Akaka Falls but also the sites in the rain forest itself. After our hike, we finished our trip to Hilo, where we  enjoyed giant, delicious sno-kones before heading back across the island to meet up with family friends who now live on the island. Once at their house, they showed us their three acres of an assortment of produce – from real Kona coffee to cocoa (as in real, authentic chocolate) to mangos and papayas, they had it all. They were kind enough to show us how the coffee process works too, which was way more involved and interesting than I could have imagined. After having a delicious sunset dinner down in Kona with them, we hit some shops and headed home. It was a fun day of exploration.

Wednesday we enjoyed a day of mostly relaxation poolside. We stopped by the live dolphin display at our resort where you can watch as the dolphins do tricks. There was even a baby dolphin that had just been born less than a month ago, which was adorable and exciting to see. In the evening we got dressed up and went to a luau in Kona. You had to do a luau in Hawaii, at least once, especially on your first time there. The luau boasted a delicious spread of food, fantastic entertainment, a gorgeous sunset over the ocean, and we even sat next to a really sweet couple from West Virginia celebrating forty-five years of marriage together.

Come Thursday, we were just getting the hang of this whole “relaxation” concept and enjoyed more water activities and pool time around the resort. We both gave paddle boarding a try for the first time and were surprised at how much we enjoyed it. Relaxing can really work up an appetite, so we had to go back to our favorite restaurant, Roy’s. Of course the food was delicious, the company of my husband the best, and they even put together an anniversary dessert for us. Another successful day in the books.

Friday was our last big excursion in Hawaii, so we made sure it was a big one…an all day volcano excursion. The day started out bright and early with our tour van picking us up. Our tour guide was so sweet, and I think she knew everything there was possibly to know about the entire island. Five more people joined us along the way, and we were off. Not only did we discover a ton of interesting information about the island, but we really enjoyed the company of our fellow tour-ees. We stopped at Punalu-u Bake Shop, which was adorable and also the southernmost bakery in the U.S.A. There I even ran into someone who worked in my hometown in Pennsylvania, which just made my day. They sold one of greatest coffees in the world (literally), so we made sure to buy a cup along with a few bags to go. The baked goods there beckoned us, so we indulged our sweet tooth and were back on the road.

Finally, we made it across the island to the Volcano National Park. Once there, we got to see Mauna Loa first thing actively spewing smoke from the Earth. We learned all about the different types of lava flow along with the mythology the original inhabitants believed was behind the volcano activity. Also in the park we stopped at steam vents, which pumped out some seriously hot steam: an instant facial for any exposed skin. We took hikes around, through, and on previously lava covered areas learning about the various eruptions and lava flows. It was amazing to see. At one point we went through a giant lava tube, which are a means for lava to flow underground from its source. Other stops included breathtaking beaches surrounded by the black lava rock and a cafe with homemade coconut ice cream that was to die for.

My favorite stop of the day was at the newest black sand beach in the world. We hiked through an old lava field down to this gorgeous beach with black sand, blue waters, and a sky filled with blues, pinks, and purples. I could have stayed there forever. In the distance there was a huge smoke cloud where active, hot lava is currently pouring in the ocean. It was just indescribable. After taking as many pictures as possible, we had to leave in order to head over to the active lava. Thinking we were going to see this spewing of red, molten lava right before our eyes, we were slightly disappointed. Current regulations due to several deaths have led to the inability to get very close to the lava. We settled for a distant red glow in the night sky, which was still pretty incredible to witness firsthand. Exhausted from a long day, we started the trek back across the island, landing us home pretty late.

Saturday was our last full day in Hawaii, and while that was an extremely sad realization, we decided to enjoy what we had left. Of course that included more snorkeling with the sea turtles, paddle boarding, paddle boating, kayaking, and walking around the resort. We also tried to optimize our pool time; you can’t come back from Hawaii white as a ghost. After getting cleaned up, we went over to one of the most beautiful ocean views on the resort and basked in one final sunset. It was only fitting for us to head back to our favorite restaurant one more time for a huge feast.

Our final day, we tried not to be too sad, thankful for such an extraordinary and wonderful trip away together. Still, it was tough not to feel sad as we packed our bags. Fortunately we had a late flight though, so we made the most of our last precious hours. After walking around the resort once more, we finally checked out for the last time. As we started our drive through the black lava fields to Kona, we stopped to partake in the tradition of white graffiti. We grabbed a stash of the white coral lying around and carefully spelled out our initials and the year. Satisfied with officially leaving our mark on the island, we were on our way. One last time we walked around the streets of Kona. We snatched up our final souvenirs, stopped by the official start/stop of the Ironman, grabbed some dinner at a local spot, and headed off to the airport.

Final thoughts….to be continued. 

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Our Adventures: Aloha, Hawaii!

Monday, October 4th, 2010

Last month, Steve and I headed out on a much needed vacation. We decided to plan it over our anniversary so that we could celebrate in style. Having come up with a list of places we would like to travel to as a couple at some point, we started by checking Hawaii off the list.

Growing up on the East Coast, I had never been to Hawaii, whereas Steve, having grown up on the West Coast, had made several trips to various parts of Hawaii. Ultimately though, we chose an island neither of us had been too, The Big Island.

Both of us were giddy with excitement as Maui appeared out the window of the airplane. The pilot announced our final decent, and before we knew it, we were landing in a black, lava field. It was both odd and exhilarating to know we were landing on what was once a sea of red lava flowing to the ocean. As soon as we stepped off the plane and headed to the all-outdoor airport, we were pretty much instantly in love with the place. We bought 2 leis, grabbed our bags, and excitedly went to pick up our rental car, which after a great deal of bargaining and salesmanship by the guy behind the counter, ended up being a red, convertible Mustang.

Laughing at ourselves, we hopped into our new ride, put the top down and cruised to our hotel in Waikaloa. Once at our hotel, we found ourselves beyond thrilled with our selection of accomodations. The resort was huge and surrounded by beautiful art, architecture, and scenery. The grounds were so big they had a monorail and boat ride to take you where you needed to go. There were several pools with waterfalls and slides, a real lagoon stocked with ocean water, fish, coral, and sea turtles, a golf course, an ocean view, a spa, numerous restaurants, shops, and well, just about everything you could want, need, or imagine for a romantic and fun getaway for two.

We kicked off our trip on Sunday by getting acquainted with our surroundings. We visited the local shops, grabbed some local-style breakfast, picked up some staples for the trip, and then headed to the resorts lagoon where we took out a paddle boat and snorkeled with the sea turtles. The resort lagoon provided me with the perfect place to enjoy the “cool” parts of the ocean without my usual, debilitating concern of the scary parts, mainly sharks. After cruising around the resort on our favorite mode of transportation, the boats, along with walking a good bit, we ended up heading back to the shops down the road for some dinner. We stumbled into a place called Roy’s, which quickly became our favorite restaurant ever. The food portions were huge and beyond delicious, the service made you feel as though you were VIP, and the dessert, specifically the upside down pineapple cake, left us savoring every single bite. First day down, and still lots to go.

Monday, September 13, was our anniversary. Steve planned most of the day for us, and it was perfect start to finish. It started with a trip to the spa, where we had a couples, ocean view massage that was pretty much the greatest thing ever. Steve also had a manicure and pedicure planned for me, which are my two favorite, girly indulgences. Feeling entirely relaxed and pampered, we headed back to get cleaned up for our evening celebrations. A sunset dinner cruise complete with incredibly delicious food, an amazing local singer, and a hula dancer. It was perfect. The sunset was absolutely gorgeous, and Steve and I relished in our special day together remembering our commitment to one another and applauding our hard work thus far that has made for an incredible marriage we are both so thankful for. As the night went on, the boat got more lively. Steve ended up being asked by the hula dancer to give it a go in front of everyone, then she had me do some moves, and us ultimately dance in front of everyone as they played a traditional Hawaiian wedding song in recognition of our anniversary. The boat made a stop at one point where the boat’s glass bottom gave us a breath-taking view of manta rays swimming playfully. They were huge, and it was one of those things you just couldn’t capture with a camera or words. At the end of the cruise, the sweet and talented hula dancer gave me her lei headpiece, which just topped off an already incredible and fun night. It was an anniversary to remember!

To be continued…

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Our Adventures: Florida

Thursday, September 30th, 2010

Sometimes it is challenging to manage visiting all of our family that we miss so terribly because we have all ended so far from one another. My parents in Pennsylvania, a sister in Minnesota, another sister, her husband, and my new niece in Florida, and then Steve’s family in Northern California while we live in Southern California; I am exhausted thinking about it. Yet, we try our best to disperse our time and resourced evenly to be able to see all of them. Family is a major priority in both of our lives.

Next in the visitation que, my sister, her husband, and their adorable little girl in Tampa, Florida. The last time we were down there visiting was in February when our niece was born. With each passing day, she was growing up, and the pain of not being there for those special moments was breaking my heart. So, we booked our flights and were on our way.

As we got closer, I found myself terrified that the little bundle of joy would find me to be a stranger. As great as my sister is with getting in phone calls and Skype visits to keep my voice and face familiar to her, I couldn’t bear the thought of the personal interaction being anything less than exhilarating for her. As I saw my sister waving in the distance as we pulled our ridiculous amount of luggage behind us, my fears melted away. It was just great to get some quality time with her, her husband, and little girl. When we got in the car, I just stared at my much-larger-than-last-time, adorable, beautiful, precious little niece. She was even more perfect than the first time I laid eyes on her. With the sounds of my hubs and brother-in-law goofing off in the front seats (as usual) and my sister attentively caring for her princess on my right, I just knew this visit would be perfect!

The visit proved to be one of our best yet. Between playing with my niece, sneaking off for pumpkin spice lattes with my sister, and catching some pool time all together, it was all just idyllic. The guys got their “guy time” between video games and walks on the dock. My sister and I got our girl time. And I got to spend every moment possible with my niece, who I think absolutely loved me, if I do say so myself (with a huge ear-to-ear grin). She was definitely enamored by Steve, but I can’t blame her for that. While there, the project I am working on as Managing Editor on (Start Marriage Right) was launched, and my sister and her husband surprised me with a “launch party,” which obviously tugged on the heart strings big time. Other big news we got to share together was my other sister getting engaged to her boyfriend, so we were able to all congratulate them together. We even tried our go at Wii fit, which made for some hilarious moments of virtual hula hooping, Segway-ing, and taking flight as a bird. All-in-all, it couldn’t have gone better.

As we said goodbye, as usual, I felt my heart break. Goodbyes are heart-wrenching for me. Whoever said it gets easier in time, has either never said goodbye or attempting to fool themselves into believing it. Even now, my eyes fill with tears at the thought of those dreaded moments of last hugs, kisses, and attempts at burning the memories in my mind. Yet, I am thankful for the precious moments we got together and hold steadfast to the thoughts of being together again sooner than later.

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Our Adventures: Chicago

Tuesday, September 28th, 2010

A picture we took of Chicago from our favorite spot.

 

 Recently, Steve and I have been traveling quite a bit. We both love traveling, and each place we recently visited proposed some new adventure. From food to shopping, excursions to relaxation, family to friends, business to pleasure, we made sure to savor every moment together laughing, learning, and making memories along the way.

First stop, Chicago! Steve and I absolutely love the Windy City. We stopped through for the first time when I was moving to California. Steve had come along for the cross-country ride, and a pit stop in Chicago was a must. It was love at first sight! We didn’t get a ton of time there on our first stop, but it was enough to make us want more. Ever since that visit, we decided a trip back was non-negotiable but weren’t sure when it would happen.

As many of you now know, an opportunity arose for me to be Managing Editor on a premarital-focused webzine called Start Marriage Right. Well, we finally got our wish come true and were offered the opportunity to head back to Chicago to take care of some business with one of Start Marriage Right’s premiere partners, Moody Publishers. To say we were excited was an understatement. The end of August we packed our bags and were off to Chi-town.  

 

Stealing a kiss at our favorite spot in the city.

 As soon as we got in, we grabbed our rental car and headed to the heart of the city to meet at the famous Gino’s East Pizza for some deep dish, Chicago-style pizza and to talk business. The team I am working with was spectacular, and they even gave us a tour of the Moody Bible Institute, which was both beautiful and surreal to see in person. Stuffed on pizza and excited about the project, Steve and I headed out on our own to explore the city. We covered some serious ground including the Trump tower, recognizable Chicago sign, the Old Chicago Water Tower & Pumping Station, The John Hancock Center, and The Drake hotel (as seen in My Best Friend’s Wedding). We were wiped out and hungry, so we capped our wonderful day off with a stop at Portillo’s to try a Chicago-style hot dog. It was both interesting and delightful. 

Saturday started bright and early as we headed out to see Dr. Gary Chapman’s marriage seminar The Marriage You’ve Always Wanted. If you haven’t done a marriage seminar, I would highly encourage it. They aren’t terribly expensive, but what you learn is invaluable. We were honored to have the opportunity to dine with Dr. Chapman over the lunch break. I was in shock that I was sitting there next to this man that I esteem so highly and struggled to choke back the million and one things I wanted to say. He was very gracious and kind, and it really was an experience I won’t soon forget. 

 

Steve and Me with Dr. Gary Chapman!

 

 After the seminar, our “business” was handled, and we had the rest of the weekend to do as we pleased. Boy did we jam pack the rest of the time with lots of walking, exploring, and eating. We went to Millenium and Grant Park enjoying the identifiable Jay Pritzker Pavilion and Great Lawn, Cloud Gate “The Bean,” and Crown Fountain. We made sure to stop at Al’s Italian Beef where we had a dipped Italian beef sandwich and fries that were out of this world delicious. Our eating excursions continued as we stopped at one of Rick Bayless’ restaurants, Xoco. After enjoying a few moments in our favorite spot in the city near the Vietnam Memorial, we continued walking block after block until we finally called it a night. 

 

On the Wendella Boat Tour

 

 Our last day we started off with a a very tourist-like approach, a Wendella boat tour. We loved it though as we cruised gracefully through the city learning about its rich history and soaking in its beauty. A Wendella boat tour is an  must for anyone wanting to get a good dose of what Chicago is all about. It made for some amazing photo ops. Can you guess what we did after? Walked! Yes, we walked all around the city more, stopping back at Millenium and Grant Park to this time enjoy the Great Lawn, Lurie Garden, and Buckingham Fountain. We definitely made the most of our time.   

 As we left in the wee hours of Monday morning, I basked in both sadness to leave but excitement and awe at this incredible city. Chicago is quite possibly my favorite city, managing to have the excitement of a big city but the charm of a small town. It is beautiful, invigorating, quaint, historical, and inspires me at every corner. My husband and I had the most wonderful time there savoring every possible moment. It made us realize how wonderful and important getaways for the two of us really are. To quote Frank Sinatra,”They have the time, the time of their life…Chicago, Chicago.”

  

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Wildcard Week: Happy Birthday!

Thursday, June 17th, 2010

Happy birthday to my husband, Steve!!! Today is his birthday, and I am so excited to celebrate with him! Growing up, birthdays were always a really big deal  in my family starting with birthday eve then of course celebrating the actual birthday and continuing on for birthday linger. As an adult I have decided to carry on those traditions wanting to really celebrate the life of my loved ones.

As I planned for all of the things I wanted to do for my husband, I couldn’t help but worry about if it would all turn out perfectly for him. You see, birthdays aren’t just another day to me. Birthdays are a day to celebrate the life of people and the fact that they are a special gift. When I look at my husband, I see this man that is better than I could have ever dreamed of! I fully believe that he was handcrafted by God for me, and so this is a day that I celebrate that gift of his life that was given to me by God.

When I think of Steve, I cannot begin to express all of the things I am thankful for, admire, adore, and love about him. He is an exemplary individual who embodies so much of what I aspire to be. He is the complete package from head to toe, inside and out, and I cannot help but thank God for so carefully and masterfully crafting him and then gifting me with caring for him the rest of my life. That’s not something I take for granted, nor do I ever want to.

Life is so short, so precious. We often forget to stop for just a moment and be thankful for the incredible gift of life we are given. On this special day, my husband’s birthday, I want to celebrate the incredible, one-of-a-kind, amazing, wonderful, loving, handsome, spectacular individual that he is. I am so, so thankful for him, and I know that not only am I a better person for having him in my life, but the world is a better place for having him in it.

Happy birthday Steve!!! I love you more than I could ever say or show, but I sure will do my best to do just that for the rest of my life!!!!

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Personal Note: Love Tip

Friday, January 15th, 2010

One of my favorite things about Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s is that it’s a time that brings people together. It encourages us to take a break from work, the hustle and bustle, and chaos to relax and enjoy the things and people that are really important to us. Most of us travel to see family or have family travel to see us, and we are given the gift of quality time and memories with those loved ones. It’s a time where we are often “forced” to get back to the basics of life, which is all about our loved ones.

The other night Steve and I were watching an ESPN special. We only caught the tail end of it, and I didn’t really who or what it was about. What I do know it was about is a “superstar” that had chosen his career, money, and desires over his family. He walked out on his family to have the “fun and prosperous” life.  There was one guy though that made a comment that struck me. He said, “If you lose your family, at the end of the day you go home alone.” Sometimes we are so focused on gaining “everything” that in the end we lose everything. If you lose your family, you lose everything. A wonderful marriage, happy & healthy children…those are the types of things worth giving your time to and investing in.

I want to encourage you to take some time and reflect on your holiday season together. If you are married, sit down with your spouse, pull out pictures, watch videos…reflect on this past holiday season and all the ones before it. This is a love tip where you can even involve your children. Laugh together, cry together, just  be together sharing a stroll down memory lane together. If you are single, get together with relatives, friends, or by yourself and do the same thing. If you are in a relationship, you know what to do. Just make time for each other to reflect on the real gifts of the holiday seasons you have been blessed with. At the end, maybe you want to set some hope and goals for the upcoming year or years. Just go with it and enjoy it!

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Personal Note: New Year

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

New Year’s is such a unique holiday I think. It’s a time where people are excited, hopeful, and re-energized. It’s a time when people are optimistic and just believe that the best is yet to come. People tend to look at it as if one chapter closed and a whole new one is opening. It’s a time of celebration, and it’s universal.

While the reality is that New Year’s is just another day where everything is the same as it was the day before, it can be a time where we take the initiative to make changes. It can be a time of hope and excitement because we can choose to change how we act, react, behave, and live. We can take a moment to get our priorities straight. It’s a time where we can decide how we want the New Year to go. True there are things that happen that are out of our control, but what about the things that are in our control? Grab them and choose to get your life in a position to prosper. It can start with putting your family first. For me, I want to walk less by sight and more by faith, relying on God each step of the way in life. I choose to make my husband number one and try to make him the happiest husband out there. Those are some of the choices I am making for the New Year. How about you?

That being said, I wanted to share Steve’s and my New Year’s Eve/New Year’s experience with all of you. We decided that we were going to camp out on Colorado Street in Pasadena, CA on New Year’s Eve Day to be front and center for the Rose Parade New Year’s morning. Two of our friends joined us for the crazy endeavor, Jeremiah & Cheryl. Steve and I arrived around 12:30 New Year’s Eve Day to get some seats. After some adventures, we managed to get some great front row street seats. It was amazing how jam packed it already was at that hour. Over the course of the next 20 hours, we bought a lot of “glow” such as necklaces, “firework” headbands, swords, and glasses. We grilled some dinner, talked, and watched as people threw burritos with shaving cream, marshmallows, & silly string at the passing cars. There were some crazy moments, funny moments, and exciting moments. We brought in the New Year with a gazillion other people on the street along with a giant party popper and some silly string. Around 3:00, we bundled up for some failed attempts at shut eye on the street. We survived though and enjoyed the beautiful Rose Parade. It was hilarious, fun, and exhausting all at the same time. Check out some of the pictures:

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A Personal Note: Christmas

Wednesday, January 13th, 2010

Christmas is one of my favorite times of the year! It’s so wonderful so many reasons – the spirit of Christmas, the true meaning of Christmas, quality time with friends & family, the decorations, memories, laughter – it’s got it all. Each year I look forward to Christmas so much because I just love it.

This year for Christmas, Steve and I went up to Fremont, CA to celebrate with his family. It was my first year away from my family and not in Pennsylvania, so I was concerned at how that was going to be for me. At the same time, I was so excited to see how Christmas was for Steve growing up. Plus, I love Steve’s family, so I knew it would  be a great time. It was then though that I realized I had to put aside my “missing my family concerns” and make sure to have a great attitude. Often times the outcome of a situation is directly related to our attitudes. When we have a bad attitude going into something, we usually come out feeling the same way. When we go into something with a good attitude, it’s usually even better than expected. Plus, how do you want your spouse to act in the same situation? So, I went into Christmas excited and ready to enjoy the precious time with Steve’s family…and it paid off!

We had an amazing time together! It was so fun to experience Christmas the McIlwain way. Of course it was different, but it was exciting and new. The memories made, laughs shared, and time spent together was priceless and the best gift of all. Take a glance at some of our memories:

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A Personal Note: Thanksgiving

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

Previously I tried to post an entry with pictures from Thanksgiving, but I was having technical difficulties. I thought I would try again :)

Steve and I went to Pennsylvania this year for Thanksgiving. We have a little system where we take turns rotating Thanksgiving and Christmas with our families as to be fair to one another and our families. Last year we did Thanksgiving in Fremont, CA with Steve’s family and Christmas in Pennsylvania at my parents, so this year it’s flipped where we did Thanksgiving in Pennsylvania with my family and Christmas in Fremont with his. Anyway, this year we went back home to my parents in Pennsylvania to celebrate Thanksgiving and did a little pre-Christmas celebration with them while we were at it. My sister Erin was able to come in too, so we had a lovely and wonderful time together.

As I get older, I find myself more and more appreciative of the small but priceless things – time together with my family (especially since we are all spread out over the country – Pennsylvania, Minnesota, Florida, and California), making memories with Steve in this life we have together, enjoying the beauty and simplicity of rural Pennsylvania, the lives bustling around me. When I was younger, I just assumed that I would always live around my family and that life would just keep on keeping on. The reality is that my family is all spread out, and life is a whole heck of a lot crazier than I ever imagined. Now, as the world whips past me in record pace, I find myself trying to drink in precious moments of it before they are gone. Thanksgiving in Pennsylvania with my family was one of those precious moments that I tried to savor each moment of as I thanked God for all His abundant blessings in my life.

Here is a little sneak peak of some memories while we were there:

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